Brian King, truly a gift, every penny worth it. . .

I feel like my family has won the lottery in finding Brian King. Brian has helped us understand what our Spectrum son is experiencing and dealing with. Understanding this has helped us find better strategies for teaching our son how to better get along in this world that can be tremendously overwhelming for him. Brian was also an amazing and pivotal tool for us when we hired him to be an advocate for our child during the IEP process for our child. Even the teaching staff has regularly told us throughout this process, how invaluable Brian’s participation to the process was in helping to understand the needs of my child and Spectrum children in general. Brian will help open your eyes and mind to the wonderful possibilities that exist on the human spectrum. I am forever grateful to have him be a part of our team : )

Do you feel your relationship is more work than it needs to be?

Do you feel like you’re the only one making an effort?

Does it feel too often that even though you choose your words carefully, it always turns into an argument?

How long have you felt this way about this relationship?

How long will you allow it to continue?

As parents raising a child on the Autism Spectrum each day can be overwhelming because you often don’t know what will happen next. You deserve greater peace of mind.

As a person on the Autism Spectrum you often learn that your responsibility to others is to be someone you’re not in order to make them happy. You deserve relationships where you can be yourself and others will meet you half way.

As parents your frustrations can often tear your relationship with your spouse apart. You deserve the strength and ability to become closer and work better together.

As a person on the Spectrum it can often feel like no matter what you do it’s never good enough. You deserve the experience of feeling competent, and that your contribution matters.

As parents how many nights do you stay awake wondering if your child will ever make it without you?

You deserve the certainty that your child can make their way in this world by knowing how to form the kind of relationships that can support them throughout their lives.

It all starts by learning how to communicate in a way that works for both those on the Autism Spectrum and those who aren’t.

Learning how to create relationships where the needs of both people matter, and you don’t have to settle for anything that is at your expense.

Fortunately, as an adult on the Autism Spectrum, A husband to a wife on the Spectrum, and the father of three children on the Spectrum – I’ve learned exactly how to create these kind of supportive, give and take relationships with other people on the Spectrum as well as those who aren’t.

Best of all, I teach others how to do the very same thing every single day.

Do you experience these problems?

	My partner or child is so difficult to communicate with!
	Just when I think we understand each other there’s always a huge misunderstanding?
	Are you at your wits end with frequent arguments over who said what and what was “really” meant?
	Do you feel overwhelmed by the feeling that you can never say the right thing?
	Does the thought, “I wonder whether our next conversation will be another argument,” keep you up at night?
	Are you overwhelmed by the thought that you’re helpless to change your relationship?

Do you feel like everything you’ve tried hasn’t given you the results you want?

• How many different professionals have you gone to?
• How many books have you read?
• How many $1000’s have you spent, only to discover yet one more person who doesn’t understand your situation, and one more book that doesn’t give you the answers to your questions?
• How many things have you tried that just don’t work?

Well Enough Is Enough! Isn’t it about time you both learned how to:

Make sure the other person understands you

Agree to doing what works for both of you so it doesn’t feel so win-lose all the time

Finally know how to talk to each other so the slightest imperfect phrase doesn’t turn into an argument

Be in Better Control of your own emotions and behavior so you no longer need to fear relationships but can look forward to them

Better manage the stress of everyday life so you don’t end up taking it out on each other

Virtually Eliminate Misunderstandings from your relationship

And More . . .

So many clients I’ve worked with over the years have come to me feeling frustrated, misunderstood and overwhelmed. They couldn’t get straight answers about what wasn’t working in their relationships, let alone what to do about it.

I’ve learned that what my clients want is a greater ability to work together and feel that the other person truly understands them. One of the most helpless feelings a person ca experience is that the other person “just doesn’t get it.” That feeling is the source of a lot of meltdowns.

In every case, both people, parent and child or romantic partners where one or both are on the Spectrum want things to change, but simply don’t know how.

Fortunately, change can and has happened for the people who have implemented the strategies I’ve taught them. They learned strategies for transforming a relationship that was more a battle of wills to a relationship that is win-win. To make it easier and faster to create the relationship you want, I’ve created a system.

Introducing the Six-Month

“No More Misunderstandings” Comprehensive Communication System.

“Get the Relationship Results you want quickly, without even having to come to my office!!!”

As human beings we all share similar goals for our relationships: “All I want is to feel close.” “All I want is to feel connected.” “All I want is to feel understood.”

As you’ve no doubt discovered, being in a relationship with anyone on the Autism Spectrum requires a set of tools and strategies that are not easy to come by. Whether as a parent or significant other, unless you happen to know someone with the tools and the ability to teach you how to use them effectively there’s often no end in sight to the daily frustration and an increasing feeling of disconnect between you.

The Tools, the Strategies and Specific Instruction on making your relationship with the Spectrumite in your life work is precisely what I’m offering to provide to you!

Once you learn the strategies for building a win-win relationship with the Spectrumite in your life, you’ll find you’re both:

Feeling more confident,

Better at communicating wants and needs,

Less anxious,

More considerate of others,

Better listeners,

More patient with each other,

More responsible,

Seeing improvements in your other relationships,

and Happier overall.

So, how can you learn to create the relationship outcomes you both deserve? By learning to create and negotiate a relationship that is based on respect, communication and collaboration. Learn how to create a partnership for solving the problems of life together. All of this can be accomplished through a solid, consistent use of shared strategies that are focused on making your relationship work.

I’m going to teach you these tools using my 10 Step System which I can adjust to meet the wants and needs of each client.

If you’re ready to make the commitment to doing whatever it takes to create the relationship you want with the Spectrumite in your life. To transform conversations from power struggles and miscommunications to cooperation and understanding, then I am ready to show you how. Imagine how much better life can become.

I’ve had the privilege of working with some amazing people all over the world who sought me out in a state of confusion, feeling defeated and just wanting something to begin turning things around. These people also came with the commitment to do whatever it took, without excuses, denial or rationalization. They were committed to moving forward instead of looking back. They were committed to doing their part in making the necessary changes. They also put in the time that was required for the best results.

In this day of busy schedules it is increasingly difficult for people to consistently meet together in the same place to learn together. I have solved that problem.

PLUS I’M OFFERING

THESE ADDITIONAL BONUSES

Structuring this coaching program in this way, with a 6 month commitment and providing so many extras allows you to move forward faster and increase your ability to maintain your progress, instead of moving backwards, which is common with traditional therapy approaches.

Through more convenient and more frequent contact with me, you save time, energy and get more information and accountability. Combine that with your own commitment to improving your life and you have a truly win-win situation.

If you’re ready to do what it takes to begin transforming your relationship, I’m available by phone at 630-778-3447 or email at brian@spectrummentor.com to answer any questions you have about this program.

PLEASE NOTE:
I offer day, evening and Saturday hours so clients can get the support when they need it.

I’m looking forward to talking with you.

YOUR PACKAGES	Gold	Platinum
Strategize & Take Action Session: Strategize: You and I will create a customized workbook that is based on helping you receive the benefits we agree to achieve together during the introductory phone session that follows your enrollment in this program. Take Action: Through a combination of One On One or Group Coaching and email correspondence I will then guide you through this workbook by giving you assignments that require you to think and act in a way that moves you toward the benefits you most want to create in your relationships. I will support you the whole way.	√	√
Workbook Check-in Session(s): This is a simple Google Document that allows us to keep track of your goals and progress.	2 per mo	3 per mo
1 on 1 Coaching Sessions: 2 hours of Coaching per month using Phone or Skype (All Calls will be recorded for you). These sessions allow me to provide you with the specific instruction you need to apply these strategies as effectively as possible.	√
‘IT’S YOUR CALL’ Coaching Sessions: 4 hours of Coaching per month using Phone or Skype (All Calls will be recorded for you). Many parents need assistance in communicating with school personnel, family members and other professionals. With more phone time each month you can dedicate some of it to working with others while also having plenty of phone time left over for yourself. (All Calls will be recorded for you).		√
YOUR BONUSES	Gold	Platinum
BONUS 1: “What People On The Autism Spectrum Aren’t Being Taught. . .But Need To Be!” 2 Hour Audio Presentation complete with downloadable mp3′s A $47 Value	√	√
BONUS 2: “How To Succeed with Asperger’s” 5 Hour Seminar complete with downloadable mp3′s A $147 Value	√	√
BONUS 3: “Win Win Parenting for the Autism Spectrum Child” 5 Hour Seminar complete with downloadable mp3′s A $197 Value		√
BONUS 4: “10 Most Effective Social Strategies for the Autism Spectrum” Teleseries. 7 Hours of instruction in the form of downloadable MP3’s A $197 Value!		√
Choose Your Package Now!	Gold	Platinum
Total Value	$4680	$7890
Potential Increase to Your Happiness	Priceless!	Priceless!
Contact me now! Phone at 630-778-3447 or email at brian@spectrummentor.com